What are my NEEDS? How do I attain them.

Nicodemus Hilaire It is sometimes very helpful to reflect on our needs. What do we want? What do we need and how do we get there? Here is a model that I use myself mentally in order so that I can understand what and where I should work on. Before I show you how I Continue reading


What is Corruption & Evil

Nicodemus Hilaire It has been a question that has undoubtedly laid its weight on the religious views of people all over planet Earth. It also touched us last week as we fumbled with the answer when I asked on my Facebook page last week. So… Why does evil and corruption exist at all? Why does Continue reading


You are Beautiful and Free! Succeed!

 For Those Who Wish to Succeed! But have some doubts… By: Nicodemus Hilaire When you are afraid of failure you work your butt off to avoid it. If you fear failure you will work very hard to avoid your idea of failure. Most people are not afraid of failure, they are afraid of success. If Continue reading


The Greatest Teacher

*At the end of this you will have two giant levers in which to act on all that presents itself to you. When I was down and out, I wanted something to learn from. I sought truth and I sought after something larger than me. I thought to myself what is the most successful hero Continue reading


This Hindu Parable

 Brought to you by Nicodemus Hilaire (I did not write this story.) Whatever bad things that has happened to you will not stop you from enjoying life and experiencing your True Will. I am going to share with you a Hindu Parable. I have had my own experience with awful things but the sharing of Continue reading


How many couples last? How many people cheat? Relationship dating statistics?

the num9ers The Number The Numbers… By: Nicodemus Hilaire *My middle name is “Q” for Quality. I constantly am asked by a proportion of the Ask Nico Family members concerning relationships and infidelity especially in regard to marriage. Perhaps it is everyone at some point in time and I do not remember however I have Continue reading


Let’s End Trendy News: A Call for Pluralism in Our Media

Let’s End Trendy News: A Call for Ideological Pluralism in our Society Authors: Kelli A. Collins & Nicodemus Hilaire Editor: Nicodemus Hiliare 12 September 2016 “Alas, laid on the grass how small, how insignificant this thought of mine looked; the sort of fish that a good fisherman puts back into the water so that it Continue reading


7 SIGNS OF A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

7 Signs Your Relationship is on the Right Swing. By: Nicodemus Hilaire SHOP NOW Take 50% off one item + FREE shipping + free mystery gift at AdamEve today! Now no relationship is perfect but I have compiled some signs that show a relationship is SUCCESSFUL- AFTER the initial hurdles of establishing MUTUAL ATTRACTION are Continue reading


Why Men Love Cars So Much.

WHY MEN LOVE CARS!  BY: NICODEMUS HILAIRE (Read and Learn and you will understand…) Why do men love cars? It seems this question has been asked since the dawn of time. I know it has not been specifically asked since cars have only been around for 130 years. In case you were wondering the first Continue reading


This Girls Got It…

This Girl’s Got It By: Nicodemus Hilaire Shelly has been an Ask Nico girl for over 3 years. Throughout this time Shelly would always give me breathtaking photos that I would use as a laptop wallpaper. Throughout this time knowing her I have seen her become conscious of her ability to direct and control her Continue reading