Relationships. Just One More Chance!
By: Nicodemus Hilaire
Do You Always Want One More Chance?
I have been doing Life Coaching and Romance Readings for many many years.
I have seen tons of relationships come and go.
I have also seen some that do actually weather the tides of time and change.
I do see one pattern that begs to be exposed in my first blog post about relationships. This is a pattern that I have seen hundreds of times. A partner in a relationship is dumped. This partner resists the change and begs the other to keep it going. “Please… Let’s give this one more chance.” Says the be-grieved lover/partner in one way or another.
Sometimes they get their way and this becomes a pattern. Other times they are served their inevitable dish full of heartbreak cold.
What I am telling you, if you are reading this and want one more chance in a relationship. Is that more than likely you have done way more than your fair share of work to keep it going.
Every relationship that dies has what I call a grieving period. Exactly like a mourning period when someone dies. It is a personal affair and people take it differently just like a mourning period. If you want to grieve your lost love do so. But just remember to feel it AND LET IT GO!!!
If you always want THAT ONE MORE CHANCE… Consider that thinking may not be healthy.
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MOST of all please realize…
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
There is nothing you could have done to make it work.
There is nothing you have over-looked.
There is no way you could have been more perfect.
This is not some fated meeting between the souls you are missing out on.
You do not have to twist yourself into a pretzel in order to have a meaningful relationship. WAY more often than not someone in your past hurt you in a way to make you feel less than your true worth. I KNOW this does NOT sink in easily.
But read the FOLLOWING OUT LOUD to yourself.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME!
I HAVE DONE EVERYTHING I CAN AND WORTH SO MUCH MORE!
UNIVERSE TAKE THIS BURDEN FROM ME I DON’T WANT IT ANYMORE!
Usually I find people who are broken-hearted and want “one more chance” have done everything they could possibly do to make it work and more. They have let their lover in the overwhelming amount of times take advantage of them.
They have an ingrained sense of guilt that IT IS THEIR FAULT – OR – THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THEM. This is simply not true, it is a pattern of codependency that must be broken.
All of you that have been hurt by the cold…
ARISE TO LIVE AND LOVE AGAIN…