What are my NEEDS? How do I attain them.

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Spread the Love.Nicodemus Hilaire It is sometimes very helpful to reflect on our needs. What do we want? What do we need and how do we get there? Here is a model that I use myself mentally in order so that I can understand what and where I should work on. Before I show you Continue reading


How To Deal With Failure

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Spread the Love.How to Deal with Failure by: Nicodemus Hilaire I heard Elon Musk speak one night on a late night talk show. The talk show host kept speaking about what incredible successes he had created. Elon Musk for those that do not know is famous for not only founding E-Bay and PayPal. He is Continue reading


You are Beautiful and Free! Succeed!

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Spread the Love. For Those Who Wish to Succeed! But have some doubts… By: Nicodemus Hilaire When you are afraid of failure you work your butt off to avoid it. If you fear failure you will work very hard to avoid your idea of failure. Most people are not afraid of failure, they are afraid of Continue reading


The Greatest Teacher

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Spread the Love.*At the end of this you will have two giant levers in which to act on all that presents itself to you. When I was down and out, I wanted something to learn from. I sought truth and I sought after something larger than me. I thought to myself what is the most Continue reading


Domestic Violence

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Spread the Love.Truths About Domestic Violence You Would Have Never Known By: Nicodemus Hilaire As my regular readers and those who purchase one hour sessions with me I always have a unique outlook and I always get to the point. I especially get to the point when it is hard to talk about. The fact Continue reading


How many couples last? How many people cheat? Relationship dating statistics?

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Spread the Love. the num9ers The Number The Numbers… By: Nicodemus Hilaire *My middle name is “Q” for Quality. I constantly am asked by a proportion of the Ask Nico Family members concerning relationships and infidelity especially in regard to marriage. Perhaps it is everyone at some point in time and I do not remember Continue reading


Why Men Love Cars So Much.

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Spread the Love.WHY MEN LOVE CARS!  BY: NICODEMUS HILAIRE (Read and Learn and you will understand…) Why do men love cars? It seems this question has been asked since the dawn of time. I know it has not been specifically asked since cars have only been around for 130 years. In case you were wondering Continue reading


A$$HOLE$

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Spread the Love.When I say asshole during the course of this article I will be referring to a certain kind of man. The perception that a certain man is an asshole is certainly subjective. A$$HOLE$ By: Nicodemus Hilaire -(There is only one!) Computer and Office – Deck your office and home out. Up to 50% Continue reading


Women Are Not Complicated. Dating Behavior Explained.

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Spread the Love.15% Off GE + Free Delivery on $999 + No Tax* *excludes NY How to Be A Man and Love Women Properly I Encourage Women to Read This as Well… (Women Reading this will Also Be Able to Organize their Feelings and Gain a Larger Understanding of Masculinity.) By: Nicodemus Hilaire Most of Continue reading